This Is Me
Share the little things that make you who you are—what you love, believe, remember, and hope the people close to you will always know.
Part of your personal Chadence profile—not assigned or sent to anyoneCreate This Is Me →Why wait until you’re gone to leave them the pieces of you they may spend a lifetime wishing they still had? With Chadence, you can preserve your voice, your smile, your stories, and the words only you can say while you’re still here—so one day, when they miss you most, they can hear your voice, feel your love, and know a piece of you is still beside them.
Grief is hard enough. There will be days when you find yourself thinking, “What would my mom say?” “I wish my dad were here to give me advice,” or “I wish they could be here for this special moment.”
Before those days arrive, the people you love can use Days You Need Me to prepare private written, voice, and video messages for future birthdays, weddings, graduations, new babies, achievements, difficult decisions, heartbreak, or any moment when their words may matter most.
Chadence cannot replace someone you love. But it can preserve their real voice, face, wisdom, encouragement, and love—helping them feel a little closer when you need them.
Create a Days You Need Me MessageWhat were you like when you were young? What was the happiest moment of your life? How did you survive your hardest days? What did you see in them that they could not yet see in themselves?
Between Us gives you a private place to answer those questions now. Choose someone you love, select a meaningful question, and respond in your own writing, with your real voice, or on video—so they can hear your words, see your face, and know the answer came directly from you.
Share the memories that shaped you, the lessons life taught you, the things you are proud of, and the words you want that person to carry with them. Their Digital Key reveals only the answers you prepared especially for them.
Between Us helps you grow closer while you are together—and preserves the answers they may treasure for the rest of their lives, allowing your stories, wisdom, and love to be passed from one generation to the next.
Begin Between UsThe people you love may miss the sound of your laugh, the way you say their name, the stories they have heard a hundred times, and the advice that could make even their hardest days feel a little easier. They will miss the small things that made you unmistakably you.
A photograph preserves how you looked in a single moment. Chadence keeps your face connected to your voice, your stories connected to your memories, and your wisdom connected to the people who may need it. It preserves not only where you were, but who you were and how deeply you loved them.
With Days You Need Me, you can speak to them during the future moments when they may need your encouragement most. They can hear your voice before a wedding, see your face after the birth of their child, or receive your reassurance during a day when life feels too difficult to face alone.
With Between Us, you can answer the questions they may not realize they want to ask until it is too late. Give them the stories behind your choices, the lessons behind your strength, and the words you hope they will remember for the rest of their lives—and pass down from one generation to the next.
With Digital Keys, you choose which pieces of your heart, life, and story are entrusted to each person.
Why wait until you are gone to give the people you love something they may spend a lifetime wishing they still had? Give them your real words, voice, face, wisdom, and love now—so a true piece of you can still be there when they need it most.

Chadence began because I lost my husband, Chad, in a motorcycle accident in 2019. Years later, I would still give anything to hear his voice, hear his laugh, or listen to him tell one more story.
Many of our photographs, videos, and recordings were kept on a social-media profile. One day I was locked out, and then the entire profile was gone. With it went irreplaceable pieces of our life together—recordings of Chad’s voice, videos of moments we shared, photographs, and memories I believed would always be there.
I realized I am not alone. Chadence was created to help people still feel close to the ones they love—through every voice, memory, story, and expression of love that keeps a piece of them near.
Created by Santia Welsh in loving memory of her husband, Chad.
Trust should be earned. Here is how Chadence protects what you entrust to it.
Chadence uses multiple layers of protection rather than relying on a single safeguard. Private content is stored using protected Cloudflare infrastructure, with secure HTTPS connections helping protect information as it travels between you and Chadence.
Files uploaded to Chadence are scanned through Cloudmersive for viruses, malware, ransomware, trojans, spyware, and other potential threats before they are accepted into protected storage.
Chadence uses Supabase for account authentication and protected member access. Payments are processed through Stripe, keeping sensitive payment processing with an established payment-security provider.
Protecting a memory also means reducing the risk of losing it.
Chadence uses automatic daily recovery backups for member information and active protected media. Recovery copies are stored separately from the primary Chadence storage, and additional independent copies can be maintained outside Cloudflare.
Recovery files are protected against deletion or overwriting for a defined retention period. Chadence has also completed backup-and-restore testing to verify that protected database records and media can be recovered successfully.
No responsible digital service can promise that information could never be lost. Chadence will not make that promise. Instead, we use layered security, protected storage, malware scanning, access controls, automatic backups, deletion protection, independent recovery copies, and tested restoration to reduce that risk—because what you entrust to Chadence may be precious beyond measure.
You can review Chadence features, plans, pricing, and individual add-ons before creating an account. When you are ready to begin preserving your story, creating your Chadence account is free.
Share the little things that make you who you are—what you love, believe, remember, and hope the people close to you will always know.
Part of your personal Chadence profile—not assigned or sent to anyoneCreate This Is Me →Leave your voice, face, and loving words for a future day when someone you love may need you most.
Heirloom or individual add-onCreate a message →Answer the questions someone you love may one day wish they had asked, so your stories, voice, and heart remain between you.
3 written answers in Heritage · 5 written or audio answers in Keepsake · unlimited formats in HeirloomBegin Between Us →Preserve the truths, apologies, forgiveness, and feelings in your heart for when you are ready—or when they most need to hear them.
Heirloom or individual add-onShare What I Couldn’t Say →Bring someone you miss close again through their real photographs, voice, videos, letters, and stories.
Heirloom or individual add-onBegin a Memory Walk →Choose which treasured messages and memories each person may receive without opening your entire private account.
Basic in Keepsake · advanced in Heirloom or add-onCreate a Digital Key →Keep the photographs, recordings, letters, and pieces of your life that you never want the people you love to lose.
Heirloom or individual add-onOpen My Vault →Save the handwriting, recipes, cards, drawings, and keepsakes whose meaning lives far beyond the paper.
Original-image preservation and typed transcription within plan storagePreserve a Keepsake →Create your free account now. Paid plans and add-ons are one-time fees through secure Stripe checkout.
Every paid membership is a one-time purchase. Optional add-ons also use one-time fees, and included features are never charged twice.
Members who do not need the complete Heirloom plan may unlock a single special feature. These are one-time add-on fees, not standalone memberships.
Prepare messages for chosen people and future kinds of days.
Add this featurePreserve difficult or unfinished words for one or several people.
Add this featureCreate a dreamlike memorial experience from the authentic memories of a loved one who has passed.
Add Memory WalkAdd a reusable private upload library and more detailed recipient controls.
Add this featureCreate a private record for relatives separated by adoption, foster care, estrangement, unknown parentage, or lost contact. Possible matches require verification and consent before protected information is shared.
Your saved content remains yours. Token, Heritage, and Keepsake members may purchase available one-time add-ons when enough storage is available. Heirloom already includes the four legacy features above, so members are never charged twice for an included feature. Find Me is coming soon and is not currently included in any Chadence membership.
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